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Boundaries

The Village

A dragon set out to meet the villagers and found boundaries in four directions. 

To the West was the boundary of EARTH with resources of water, plants and living things.  

Liquids Sustenance Sleep Community

To the East a boundary of FIRE, full of motivation. 

Talent passion Uniqueness Connection

In the North the boundaries were WATER full of emotions

Gratitude, Frustration, Empathy, Rewards

And lastly in the South a boundary of AIR filling the mind with

Focus Sounds Self-love Time Valued Space

Follow the dragon to the four corners of the village and find the 16 boundaries 

Earth Resources 

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Hydration

We are greatfful for

WATER

Hydrate Hygiene Hydropower

At the lair we have clean all you can drink and wash water on tap from the mountain fresh creeks that flow from Mt Pilchuck to our local well and the hot tub. We drink Juice and coffee but almost never alcohol. The property is surrounded by creeks and a lake in the back yard. 

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Sustenance 

We are grateful for 

FOOD PLANTS

At the lair we try to eat as healthy as possible focusing on local greens from our large veg garden, eggs and chickens and when shopping limiting anything that comes in plastic or junk food. 

All recycling is used in house so attention to containers and other waste is considered. We are 420 friendly but discourage the use of vapes and nicotine (designated spaces).

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Sleep

We are grateful for 

THE EARTH

We have our own spaces for sleeping and resting that are private and personal. Our quiet hours are 9pm to 9am with exceptions for requests and special events.

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Social

We are grateful for 

FRIENDS

We interact with each other socially. Share meals and information. We see each other regularly and provide common every day support. 

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The Sun Surface

Fire Motivation

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Talent

We are grateful for 

THUNDERS

At the lair we encourage personal talent that compliments others and is shared and passed on.

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Passion 

We are grateful for 

THE SUN

What are you very passionate about? We hope to help you develop your passion in collaboration with your talent and let at least some of that rubs off at the lair.

We have welding, CNC woodworking and more to get you started. 

 

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Unique

We are grateful for 

Natural Medicines

At the dragon's lair we are unique by focusing on making the world a better place by starting at home embracing the unique. 

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Pod

We are grateful for 

THE STARS

Friends or family this is the pod you most hangout with. 

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Water Ripples

WATER - EMOTIONAL

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Gratitude

We are grateful for 

TREES

At the lair we are grateful for nature and its healing nature  for physical and mental well-being.

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Frustration

We are grateful for 

​THE FOUR WINDS

At the lair we deal with our frustrations by making an effort to fix the problem by taking action. 

We are currently very frustrated with the patriarchy.

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Welcome

We are grateful for 

THE MOON

At the lair we try to find out what you need to make you feel welcome and appreciated by learning your love languages. 

Affirmations, Service, Gifts, Quality Time, and Touch.

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Love Languages 

We are grateful for 

FISH

At the lair we like to welcome and show our appreciation by hosting a safe space, good food and clean water served with a smile and a hug. 

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AIR - MIND

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Project Focus

We are grateful for

TEACHERS

At the lair we are focused on creating a safe healthy welcoming space with all sixteen aspects taken into account. 

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Sounds

We are grateful for

THE BIRDS

At the lair we like to listen and make music listen to the sounds of nature and listen to each other.

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Time

We are grateful for 

The Animals

At the lair we respect time and use it to make improvements to our environment and ourselves. 

On some days time may be used to meditate or rest, other days are used for meetings, projects and structured activities. 

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Space

We are grateful for

CREATORS 

The lair is 23 acers of lush forest located in Granite Falls Washington,  gardening zone 8a with at least a few days of snow in winter and some very hot days in summer.
The lair has private space, common spaces and shared space. Each space is maintained and sustained to serve as a safe environment for all inhabitants to succeed and thrive. Space extends to our senses and belongings.

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The 16 Boundries

Do we know ours? 

Do I know mine? 

  1. How do we hydrate?

  2. What sustains us?

  3. How do we sleep?

  4. Who is our best friend?

  5. What's our talent?

  6. How do we use our talent?

  7. In what way are we unique?

  8. Who's in our pod of friends?

  9. What are we grateful for?

  10. What frustrates us?

  11. How do we like to be greeted?

  12. How do we show our love?

  13. What are we focused on?

  14. What are we listening to?

  15. How do we spend our time?

  16. What is our safe space?

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