UFP - Dragon's Universal Friendship PaperPazzport

Want to make better friends?

Print or draw two copies and share each others information.

After a lifetime friendships I realized I needed a better system to keep track of my friends than the social apps so here it is. The paper based system.

For each friendship print a copy or the UFP. You will fill a new one for each friend.

The pazzport starts with sections for name and contact info but also, love languages, boundaries and superpowers and some coupons. If you have never heard of these concepts you can just guess what they mean but you can also get familiar using these links or searching the web. You can work on these before filling the pazzport or with your partner and figure it out together as you fill the pazzport out over time.

Side A

1. NAME: Start with your name or what you would like to be called by this friend.

2. IMAGE: Draw a little image that will remind of you of them.

3. CONNECTION: Draw or write things you have in common, foods, activities, music.

4. SMAL CLOUD: Number this friend from 1-69, if you have reached over 69 friends, review some of those all cards you have not had contact in over 69 days and consider recalling those cards.

5. CONTACT: Give your contact preference (text, FB, call) and write it in full. Cell recommended.

6. SUPERPOWERES: pick three superpowers of yours to share or you think this friend could use.

7. LOVE LANGUAGES: In the corner box on the left, draw or write the love language you most like to give to this friend. On the right square draw or write the one you like most to receive from this friend.

Side B

8. GOAL: What are you looking to accomplish in your life right now that this friend might be able to help or support.

9. BOUNDARIES: Go over the different kinds of boundaries and share your feelings and limits on each one. Write a catch phrase that will help you remember how to treat this friend.

10. BOUNDARY CFROSSING BOXES: Use these boxes to mark an X or write the date a boundary was crossed, discus and re-align your boundaries every 69 days or three X.

11 BOUNDRIES RESET DATE: write the date 69 days from the day you filling on the pazzport.

12. COUPONS: Choose three coupons to share with this friend over the next 69 days.